I always say it sucks to know too much and I still believe in that. What's worse is finding out about stuff yourself...things that are not meant for you to know but somehow all the forces of nature will put you in the time and place. Many times we contemplate on certain decisions only to be lead to the knowledge of something else. Turning your head back at the right time and changing plans to go certain places can and in most cases will reveal something to you.

Well if its not meant for me to know i'll just act blur until it comes clean about it. Just wonder why people thinks that i'll be unable to hear it from them, ya right...rather let me find out myself and thats going to be so much better isn't it? Haha wrong but I learnt not to give a shit about such things. I get over the initial surprise rather quickly but like freeuns say...I should really try to expect more out of some people. In this case I think hardening yourself is the best defence against such situations. No one owes me a living and vice versa but I'm not the type to stoop to that level and play a similar game. Lies and deceit is really the start to decaying any relationship...1st you wonder whats the rotting smell and you start to be paranoid then the appearance starts to look unrecgonisable. Thats when you totally don't know who that person is anymore. Its perfectly fine for people to keep their own secrets but when asked about it, a simple "I don't wanna talk about it" would suffice instead of lying.

Struck a chord with some of you? Haha think about it before you answer in future...